Ahhh… what can I say….
18
Apr
I am a people pleaser. I am. My mom was one too.
It’s not always a good thing. So I am trying to be less of  that and more of this think-about-ME-FIRST kind of person.
But that is hard to do, because for me – it is truly important to see people happy. Especially if I can make them happy !
But being frustrated and stressed about a lot of things lately, having a lot to deal with……made me this person on facebook who started venting on my wall instead of enlightening people with lovely updates…
   
so, I figured it’s best I leave my fb page tonight for a while before it gets really ugly with all the bad things I want to say about the people who had upset me so much this week….
and rather go pin a few things on Pinterest.
Pinning and Blogging are my outlets for turning frustration into creation.
It works for me.
But before I left Pinterest to go to my blog, I spotted this one…..
A-ha !! See….
I always think I will have a bestseller blog if I could just speak my mind and put it ALL OUT THERE !!!!
Telling a few people exactly what I think of that stupid or inconsiderate thing they did.
As in “you watch your step, girl” or I will BLOG about you !!!
People would love to read all the saucy details of the things that make our blood boil.
Uuurrggghhh… I was ready to wring somebody’s neck today
…..and yesterday….
and the day before ….
and the other day…
and the other week….
Yes. That is not nice language.
So, I hope our relocation smooth out a little bit before this state of mind becomes a permanent persona of mine !
Sometimes I had the mental clarity to come up with a more sensible solution.
But some things were still a little hurtful and not so easy to just simply let go…
But.. what can you do….??
Why do some people choose nasty over nice?
Oh, I get it – they are all just trying to be helpful and put us up for success….
How nice. Â Well, I have something to say to them too….
Remember I said I am a people pleaser and I also like to help people.
Yes – I found all these images on my Pinterest Board called Say It.
I just had a field day going through all the “advice” I pinned up there for myself to go pull up on a day like today .
My  friends had been a great support and cheering me on through this trying time and I do hear what they say…so I take their advice and I trust
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But I’m a faithful girl and I know where the answers lie, too….
Do I even need to tell you the answer??
So, I had to accept a few things that are beyond my control…that in itself is a tough thing for me to do, but I know……
Oh… may I just say – a LOT of changes for me in store !!!
But I am trying to look at the bright side……
SO, I look forward to this new adventure awaiting….and..
going through the motions did teach me one thing that I am DEFINITELY going to apply more rigorously in me new life
I already had too many candies tonight that I picked from the kids’ leftover Easter baskets !
Happy Pinning Everybody !
Sometimes it comes in SUPER HANDY !!! to get your thoughts and your ducks in a row again !!!
And to go take on life with a new perspective from the teachings through the journey !
The original sources for all these pins are on my board that you can find here.
Ilze
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Great post–First, hang in there. Second, I just love the “I will not keep calm and you can fuck off” one! Perfect, perfect, perfect! sbc
It’s sometimes very necessary to say it Shelby !!
Such a good idea! Let it all out!!! maybe I should also do a post like this one day…
Hang on to yourself and let the others pass…
See you soon for a new photo shoot or adventure or something – I already have some plans!
Yvonne
Already excited Yvonne !!
this was by far my favorite one!! i love all your signs!!
i would love to read what you would WANT to write 🙂
That was INTENSE! I got stressed out reading it! Good luck with everything. I must say, I love moves. I’ve got a friend moving from here to HK in June. She’s having house trouble too!
Well said. Enjoyed reading this, Ilze.